renter who's never held a drill to someone ready for a real project

the order that actually worked for me. skip around at your own risk

1
read the first hundred pages, then skip straight to the room you're actually working on. rest is reference
2
did this with Home RenoVision DIY's bathroom series, twice, before I owned a single tool
3
patch and paint a wall
(rental-friendly) do this even if you're not planning to move. cheapest way to fail small
4
replace a faucet or a toilet fill valve
first project with real stakes if you mess it up. turn the water off twice, trust me
5
find a stud and hang something heavy properly
6
denser reference, keep this one for when something's already gone wrong
7
take on one full room, start to finish
the actual test. mine was the bathroom and it took four times longer than the youtube version

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